Don't worry techan has a very anti-woman agenda and needs to deal with his misogynistic tendancies. Don't give up and don't withhold oral from her like some of the comments suggest. Now, call me old fashioned, but oral sex is not mandatory. I really suck him and get him off like every night and maybe get a fifteen second lick from him every month is about the trade off. It actually might, its not something I've ever tried. This is the part of this post that matters. He has only asked a handful of times and I just kind of blew it off.
If you have a problem with my vagina, we clearly are not well suited. I've tried bringing it up in a funny, humorous way so it doesn't seem like a big thing. I'm a great girl to him and do all that i can for him. It is also something that doesn't have to be reciprocated all the time. I enjoy pleasing him, so I still did it even though he wouldn't. Boys can be a little selfish too and if you're giving, why isn't it that you are not giving each other oral at the same time, making the best of both worlds.
And overthinking dating is bound to make it hard because romance is fundamentally illogical and weird: What's more ridiculous than sticking your tongue down a stranger's throat? In basic business terms, you've lost your leverage. Lack of oral is problematic for most women. I think he also needs to find out if she's ever given them before. If he has then I'd ask what's changed for him and if he hasn't ever then I'd ask what the reason is that you two moved in together? I think it would only be a problem if she's getting drunk all the time just to give you head, then I would back off. Usually, it's small talk; often it involves alcohol.
I'm pretty sensitive about my genitals at all, so I just don't want to hear that again. Tagged as: Question - 31 January 2008 9 Answers - Newest, 8 August 2009 A female age 30-35, anonymous writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. I probably should have mentioned that he was physically abusive and would definitely retaliate by either punching or biting me back if I had done that. I will say that the willingness to engage in the act matters more than the act itself, because it generally implies that you're putting my pleasure first, yadda yadda yadda. I feel really bad with guys I date because things that would be so normal with other people could be a trigger for me and unfortunately that's my reality. I'm in a relationship now where my partner desires much more oral than he's willing to give—and I'm getting a bit frustrated sexually even though we have lots of sex. Given the orgasm success results from last year — cunnilingus is platinum and fellatio is bronze! It's not liike I smell or anything because I shower everyday 2x a day and could tell you if there was an odor or not.
Old post I know — but I have the same problem and searching online and came across this post! I wish someone could give us some good advice. She basically laid it out like this: When I tell my partner it's disgusting, whether I mean to or not, I'm basically telling him that the idea of pleasing him is disgusting. There's no one right way to date, flirt, or get a guy to pay attention. I give my boyfriend oral almost everytime we have sex and I get none. He went down on me way before I was comfortable enough to return the favor.
Promotion, recruitment and astroturfing for communities which violate this rule both on and off Reddit will also result in a ban. We just poke a lot and engage in no other form of sexual activity? He wouldnt stop looking at me and pleading for me to do it while he was. In the end, I boiled it down to confidence and personal experience. A fun tease can be just as satisfying. Let yourself feel disappointed, then ask for more details. People also say things about how the man should suck it up or how you should bargain for it by refusing to go down on him. If she doesn't like it, then she doesn't like it.
But she really does want to please you its just that she doesnt know how to do it or is scared to. Are you more concerned about giving your boyfriend oral sex for reciprocity or because you enjoy it? And like you said, I very rarely get any enjoyment from it, which is sad for both of us. My suggestion: buy some four point restraints for your bed and ask her if she'd be more comfortable if you were strapped down, and she could have her wicked way with you. A gentleman gladly goes downtown without complaint. I love getting eaten out and you should love eating me out.
But now, after actually doing it. I think I'm going to take a hard pass on that one. I've even thought about finding someone who will do it on the side. DamnPops: As with most things in life, there are more than what meets the eye in many cases. However, if things don't improve, I really don't think there could be longevity in our relationship. I explained that as he is uber clean , there will be no taste on me for him to notice? I really dont know what it is.
Finally, for the first time, his lips and tongue lightly touched my clit. For Goodness Sake Yaw Above Me Aree Stupid He Didn't Hook Up With No Tease. Become the best oral advocate you can be! If that is the case, you may just have to go without it. He was so slow and careful, exploring every part of me as if his life depended on it. Appetizers are nice; dessert is even better but even without all the trimmings, sex can still be damn good.