In another scenario, a woman who has been mistreated whether it be abuse or neglect may lean towards another man for emotional support. We went out for a few drinks and ended up sleeping together. I started feeling like I didn't need him in my life anymore and I was happy without him. A study done by the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that being unhappy tops the list of reasons for infidelity. People cheat for all kinds of reasons, unfortunately. My friend and I never started dating, but we're still good friends to this day.
Not that cheating is ever justified; it is an ugly choice but when a couple is not actively engaged in nurturing their relationship, they risk danger. He had met me when I was at an all-time low with self-esteem and was shocked that anyone could see me as a remotely attractive person. This is another situation where you really want to evaluate whether or not you still want to be with her in a relationship. Then you have men who withhold sex as a form of punishment. Sex can be raw and meaningless also. Twenty minutes went by and he hadn't answered.
But for the 50% of relationships cheating has affected many people cannot figure out why their lovers cheat on them or would hurt them in such a way. First, there should be effort put toward solving the marital problems. I walked out of his apartment, clothes in hand and nothing but his shirt on. Blaming women, won't help you understand what one woman did. Reasons for infidelity are not excuses! These relationships will often escalate into a traditional, physical affair. Cheating did not lead me to the love of my life or to someone better, but it did lead me to look at my life and find happiness in myself and in my own life, something that I was not able to do before.
In some cases, a moment of infidelity can even change your whole outlook on love and life. There are some reasons that are common among many of the women who do cheat. I instantly knew he was the guy for me, but I was already in a committed relationship, so I was very confused. They choose not to end the relationship because they feel it's something they can still work on. I think I needed to get that last 'idea' out of my head, otherwise I'd be living the rest of my life with a 'what if', which is absolutely no way to go into a marriage. I think a large majority of them do so because they are looking for something that isn't being fulfilled in their current relationship, but also want the comfort of a partner to come home too. She will take great care of you while you are in Thailand, but when are not, she will find another.
Eventually, I came to terms with the fact that that neither he nor my ex-boyfriend was what I wanted. When a wife realizes that her husband has been cheating, it is one of the toughest things he has to experience in her life. It opened my eyes to how much I loved him. And the same seems to be true from his side too. A wife ends up with a husband who would rather watch football or read a good book at bedtime than have sex with his wife. If you think that your girlfriend is stepping out because she thinks that you are. In some cases, a moment of infidelity can even change your whole outlook on love and life.
We had been arguing for a few months and he was so distant, barely talking to me or giving me the time of day. I couldn't find love and acceptance with him, so I went searching for it elsewhere. You end up doing it just for the heck of it. Maybe you started to feel that one last time you could have sex with someone else and then accept the fact. Cheating showed me how bad things had gotten and how unhappy I was. A common cheating reason among women is simply boredom.
Women may have children with multiple men in order to have strong genetics in their background. There is no one answer to this, it varies depending on the woman and her relationship experiences, certainly someone who believes that 'revenge is sweet' after being cheated on by her boyfriend will return the favor. I wound up hurting someone I loved and respected very much, and I can never forgive myself for that, but in the end was the best decision I've ever made. Slowly, talking became flirting and flirting became sexting, and eventually we kissed, and from that day, we couldn't stop. I knew I needed to break up with Brad, but every time we would talk about, it would become a disaster of screaming and crying and threats and begging to get back together until I would cave.
Depends on each individual why they would cheat before breaking up and that is something you could ask that person to get their motives behind it. This could also happen if you are not satisfied with your current relationship. But over time, I started to realize how happy I was with Ryan and how miserable I was in my relationship with Brad. I don't think we would have ended up together if I didn't cheat. Anyway, cheating is not a proud moment for anyone.
Four years after all that mess, and Ryan and I are engaged. Here are some reasons why women cheat on their boyfriends: 1. I told him within the next few days and it ended up being unforgivable to him. My fiancé and I obviously got back together, and as much as I hate that I hurt him so much, I can say with 100 percent certainty that I'm marrying the man I should be. Many people, men and women, sadly cheat instead of doing the right thing and breaking up with someone if they are unhappy with them.