I try my best to get along with her but we always end up fighting. She told me straight to my face that she will one day throw a rock at my head causing me to go into a coma that was life threatening and pull the plug. I only stayed at their place once, and they both were drugged out on some type of Sleeping Aid liquid. Maybe something about you just bugs her I know it is irrational, but it is possible. I was forced repeatedly pack my stuff and go to a little hiding area right next to the highway, waiting for my mom to get back.
As a child i wanted to love her and talk to her but she never once wanted anything to do with me. Sure lots of people are like that and come out if but it appears that my sister has some deep and irreversable emotional problems. I have tried everything I know to get her approval but it is to no avail. She is 20 years old, I am not her mother. What happens after you have stuck up for yourself is not as important as the fact that you stuck up for yourself. Then she'll continue screwing you over.
My older sister hates me because she always thought that I am the baby and I am pampered and loved and she is not so she hates my mom too. You aren't obligated to her just because you share parents. But underneath it all, we know we do it only because we love each other - to death. I don't need to see a doctor because I am not trying to kill my siblings by putting insomniac pills into their food. Racing forward, I charged between them. Anything I say she pooh-pooh's with sarcasm and disdain.
They have this mentality that 3 of them can outvote my wife on any family-related decision. Especially with your parents, they might have insight into the situation which will help you know how to deal with your sister in a better way. Sometimes at night I wonder how unlucky I am to have a sister like her. I lost my brother, and at the same time, my sisters turned their back on me. Do not allow your sister to beat on you, and don't do your sisters choirs, they are hers to do, if she does not do you the same favor's when you need it to be done, also homework comes first, if your mother does not believe you, then that's her own fault, one day she will see for herself.
They won't even offer a helping hand to women who can't possibly be any threat to them. She then pulled my hair back and whispered in my ear, I hope you die. Avoid answering what isn't worthy of a response. I am 58 years old now, and she is 61. I would be supportive, and keep a very close eye on mom.
If your siblings are still terrorizing your life, they are toxic and its time to walk away. Think of something and talk to her about it. You do not have to be a victim. Ask a friend or family member if he or she can pretend to be your sister to practice what you want to say to her. This skill carried over into relationships outside my family, and into my career.
Get these abusive family members out of your life. Well now she is mad at me and constantly sends me emails telling me how she is hungry and needs cigarettes and cat food and needs me to come and take her to get this stuff for her. By stepping back, asking the sister for help, making her feel valued, etc. There would be no end to people you''d have to dislike. Pushing her to get help or pushing for a relationship is going to make things worse. Try to do the same, for all of you that have these older sisters that dislike you. Shouting will not help you communicate with her.
She shoved my diploma so far back in a drawer it bent in half. I think they must have pressured her to come to their house at a time when my boyfriend and I would both be there. Explain to your daughter that things you have done have perhaps not been the right things to do, that you made mistakes, and that you have learned from these and have put them firmly back in the past where they belong, and now live your life in a different way. I got home and my mom asked what we got and I told her I didn't eat and they started yelling over me. Like just now, I came back from a trip late,11am my mom said I could sleep in, so I did. Their feud, which started at birth, is, according to Drabble, completely unresolvable, and has provoked much interest.
To I feel you guys by: Middle sister To I feel you guys. She is divorced and very bitter, has been many years. Since I almost died a few years ago, I've gotten very intolerant of hurtful people. Many mentally ill see themselves as normal and persecuted by the world for some strange reason. But I hope it will help me learn to forget, if not wholly to forgive. The other three sisters didn't want anything to do with her the 5th sister until the father passed, while my wife always went with mom been deceased to visit her all of the years growing up.