I do have my own income, but I dont have anyone to watch my babies when they get out of school. India as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. I became chronically ill at the age of 20 and started my first proper relationship at the age of 23. It feels like a lost dream now, and now I feel rudderless. If I get to buy food it will be a blessing. I still love him, I just think that I am not in love anymore and the financial situation worries me. I would like to watch movies together or go do things together but he never wants to.
Hes not emotional, if i am or i cry because of him doin something stupid he wont care n says u can cry the whole year if u want. But when he seems to have more sympathy for the ongoing sagas of Sheila At Work than he does with your own various ordeals, that's more than being a concerned colleague. But depression has many different faces and manifestations. Today, I realize the mistake, and maybe too late. Here I am now, ten years after the separation, six years living out of the area and desperately trying to reconcile with my kids. Everyone gets angry at some point in a relationship, and yelling and screaming may even occur.
He is miserable again today, this happens quite a lot. But what i do find helpful is prayer and reading some inspiring Christian books from people who have gone through that path. Being bogged down inside instead of walking briskly or riding your bike, running whatever for just 20 simple minutes is like popping red dragon ludes. I lived at home until I was 26 years old and moved in with him. Thank you for your thought-provoking post. I talked to him today after giving him some space, but he says he still does not know if he wants me. I have been in love with Justin for the past 2 years but i was a shame and afraid to express my feelings to him cos he was my boss at work.
It always just seems like its all about her only. Why do you put up with someone who treats you disrespectfully and takes you for granted when you could have a much better life, without this person or with someone a lot better? So is that really your benevolent choice, ignoring them completely instead of walking away from them? After the separation of my husband, a trip overseas which turned into a nightmare, my mother getting cancer, countless good friends leaving the city I live in, countless people screwing me over, plus many countless things to beat me down its finally got me to breaking point. The problem, his 86 year old mother lives with us and he really thought he was going to divorce me and have me stay at the house and take care of his mom, while he ran off with gf. Insist on working and save your money. I am getting diminishing returns on my investment.
She felt the same way as you, Teto. Take responsibility for your happiness by developing your passions instead of focusing on the relationship. It sucks because I am fed up and know I deserve better and thought we would grow older together and basically told him he needs to re-home. There are past issues behind this. Please try to make time for yourself. I am now all confused because it turns out that after 16 years of living together, he is not the man I thought he was.
We received no love, affection or attention unless it was negative, forget about being taught any kind of life skills. I feel empty in the relationship and lack desire. I can tell my husband is fed up. I understand where you are coming from. I have wonderful friends, but I hate the dependence on them.
Though there are some outright hints, sometimes it can be tricky to tell. During the split I fell in love with another. We have 3 children ages 10, 8, and 4. If you expect greatness, you must create it, first within yourself then expect it to show externally. I seem to sleep better in the day time.
Hi Darlene Lancer, I married on very small age now I am 28 year and from starting I dont like that girl but my family and her family forcing me too much accept her and live together, All are very emotionally telling me for future and family relationship and reputation. For my family, I put myself on the line for them noatter what and am always trying to be good to them, even though they just want me to be happy. Or maybe you will find a small place that you can turn into a farm…fix it up. When we think of communication, we think of talking, Astarte says. Get counseling yourself, learn to set boundaries.