I could paint men with a broad brush stroke and say, Men do not know how to touch the right spots in women, the way men are designed to touch women. A British court record from A. He hates cleaning toilet so I do that for us. Women are genetically programed to care for other people and to put the needs of others before their own. The nagging then causes resentment i.
All what I understand is that, you came across the entire population and you know every single woman in this world. I can't change those people, but I sure as hell can choose to avoid them. On the other hand, I was having an off week and left my clean laundry in the hamper after couldn't get myself to fold. The problem is that whenever we do help out with cleaning, you expect us to continue on with whatever renovation project you have dreamt up. To understand this issue better, I suggest you read up on evolutionary biology.
. Lawn, trash, slaying dragons, he does for us except maybe a very small dragon. These findings imply that if women want positions of , they need to lower their voices if they want to be perceived as more dominant than they are. Probably all ills - as well as what has motivated us for doing good - can be traced back to what motivates us as species, which is deeply entangled with how men and women interact in a sexually dimorphic species. This becomes a Catch-22 for a woman in her personal life. I was taught to fix my own problems. That thought is indeed on women's minds, but often we find that men lash out at women for generalizing them.
Whenever we give in to our lower urges, instead of trying to be rational, we tend towards dysfunction. Evolutionary there was a power imbalance between men and women, so it is true that the root is an imbalance in power and put primarily a division of labor. But these days, those tasks are automated, done by hired help, and simple. I don't want to have to ask you to do the same thing over and over again or beg and plead with you just to contribute. Forgetting important dates, like birthdays or anniversaries Why does your wife get so bent out of shape when you forget to give her flowers on Valentine's Day or a card on her birthday? I witness my friends and neighbors and family get married, and it's just assumed that once married, a man has to give up any and all interests and fun things, and spend all of his time serving the needs and wants of the woman. It's a lost art for women to learn to drop a handkerchief and have men dive for it. Also, where do you come off telling women that there is a side effect of a man being more forthcoming with your remodeling project or whatever? So when the trash can gets full, I ask my husband, Hey babe, would you mind taking out the trash when you get a chance? Thankfully, my wife is more like your husband.
However, I do not clean just because it's a certain day of the week, but whenever I realise it's necessary. Also, I do realize that some men would jump all over my comment and label me as a troll, feminist, man-hater, or some such name. I find that if I bribe my man with sex along with my request, I clean up. During this workshop, I did a presentation to the women of the group on how not to nag men. These people were in their thirties.
Men tend to neglect their own health more often, as their evolutionary role was usually to protect women and children by sacrificing themselves. Women are taught to express their emotions. I'd rather stay at work than go home. Instead of defending themselves, women will often times enlist the help of other men in order to do violence to the man having disrespected them through those men. Or is it just that men don't want to admit to doing it too? If men just did as they're told at all times, they wouldn't get nagged. Like every other woman who cares to reply, you bring up cleaning and not a word mentioned about the endless renovation projects on your honey-do-lisst? Well, let me set the record straight about why a woman stresses so much about that. Right I can imagine you almost waving with a flag, but she ignored it completely, as if she was a druggy being pulled over by the police haha.
It's not a word that's simply dedicated to the role of women or wives. All we need to do is change just 1 thing in that sequence and we can get better positive results. I believe that's part of the job description. What you just described is pretty much the role that men are expected to fill in a marriage. Married life isn't like the pessimistic hellhole you described. It also punishes the person who has the ability to think ahead.
I don't want to hear you being negative. How about that power imbalance in gender roles of contemporary society? It means they went through a miserable experience and want to talk about it. I thought 3 years was really a reasonable wait. Because the more they do for them, the more their wives demand. So yes, many men have learned to just ignore the never-ending stream of requests and demands from their wives. It is not the most convincing portrayal, but I think the script is to blame.