But like you I think of him everyday secretly and feel that I was confused as to what love is. His face was when Swollen and he gained at least 30lbs this year. At first, we were both seeing other people so it was easy to keep it friendly. Either way leave your bf, if u dont feel like hes the one dont waste his tIme or yours. I sounds to me he has cold feet! I have been with my man for 14 years, we lived under the same roof for 11 of those years and currently, we each live with our parents. Let them go so you can open your heart to someone else. I have tried for years to get him to stop.
Have you ever been able to talk with an ex and get something that you would consider closure? Her mother passed away about 6 weeks ago, but my wife was doing this long before. Each time I read a new post, I could point to a time in my continuum where he was either saying or doing the same thing, or I was as whacked out by what he was saying and doing that I thought I would go crazy. In June I left cross country for grad school and we still continued talking. I have told him that is why I went over there. Sometimes it was people were wrong and foolish. All letters are treated in complete confidence and, to protect this privacy, Fiona is unable to pass on your messages to other readers.
And if he really loves you, then a few years down the line he will come knocking. The reason some woman from his past has a hold on him and was quite happy to have him lonely on his own but boy did she do her best when she found out about me. What did he do wrong; I would like to know because sometimes it is up to interpretation. He has never passed out, but has has a couple black outs where he does not clearly remembers certain conversations, but this has been rare. He will help you get over this. And after our first date, I instantly felt something for him.
Then out of the blue you get hit with it — wham! He is 30 and lives with his mom. Guy seemingly went off deep end again after short sale. We have alot of common interests and have done so much traveling together in just short time. He goy scared and told me that he loved talking to me and it felt like we have known each other for years. I went to his house and spent the rest of the day with his roommate. Just pick up the pieces and move on.
The bottom line, there was no need for disrespect, insults, or anything nasty. I broke uo with him yesterday, again; he thought I was gonna change my mind, I asked him to come up with a plan on how to stop this situation, he did not, so I left. I can completely resonate with you. You are more than what that relationship was. Luckily for me, I am able to lose all contact with him. I just wanted to hear him tell me I can do it. When the power is yours and no one can take that from you.
We were younger and our love was so great, but it came to an end. I realised that I could compete with her. I sent another text asking if he was feeling better from the flu and he replied and said yes, he was feeling better. Maybe he was questioning his life and if he really wanted this right now. For all you know he could be eating her out every night. I could never leave him, so that is out of the question. You going back to him everytime just shows him you're not going anywhere.
Well, how could God need him more than I needed him? We were not in a committed relationship. Just go about things iN a positive mood on your own and with your support system. It has been the hardest marriage ever. He came back to me 3 years later for about a month but he left me heartbroken once again because his family anf friends didnt approve of us being together. These men rarely accept any responsabilty for their actions. I got divorced moved out- went out with a guy for 4 yrs. Well I guess it can make you feel like whole relationship was a lie.
So in the mean time and between time I am going to live my life and be thankful for the time and love we shared together. I learned from his life with me and have learned from his separation from me. How could he tell me I was the love of his life and keep all this from me? Then when I got the job and moved in with him, I noticed the drinking was a lot more frequent than I had first thought. I have been having misunderstanding with my husband which leads to divorce some mouths ago, But i was unable to move on with my life because i have so much love for my husband and my kid love him too. Its starting to bother me more and more.
Will I have the chance to get him. I asked her if she could consider what should I do to make her forgive and take me back. To me, growth is a necessary characteristic of a vibrant life and therefore it is easy to see how two people might grow in different directions or how one might outgrow the other. So as I said I am out of town leaving in sept he has transportation that I need to use while I am here. I too am living with and married to an alcoholic.