I dare you to find a woman who loves herself completely -- every inch, every hair, every detail and every angle of herself. I have gained respect at my job, I think even more so because these men know that I could have used my sexuality just as she does. This advice is as best ridiculous, at worst, harmful. Linda105 February 08, 2012 Ladies, get a grip. Thank you so much for any advice you could offer.
Not that I was a tomboy or something, I naturally jelled more with the boy gang. If bro-mance rules so should sis-mance? Yes this issue that you mentioned needs to be discussed and often times I can feel the negative energy from other women without them verbally expressing their hate. But how can you know for sure? She said she can see now what an awkward position he put me in etc. I came to terms that from now on I do not care what they think about me because what really matters is, what I think about them. You need and deserve good friends just as much as any other person. I don't get why women have to put each other down.
I really do not agree with the advice in this article. We become possessive and competitive. I have only two female friends and not even too close. I also know they do things outside work without me and they even talk about it with each other in front of me as if I was not present like: Hey what are you doing Friday evening, you want to join me and my bf in that new club? She is 45 and has never been married nor had children. There is a key difference though.
Yes, I too was an ugly duckling braces and all…lol. Hell, some men undermine and bash other men for their looks or money or success or intelligence or lack therof, too. I always tell people they look nice or if something their wearing is cute. Am I…gasp…saying that women have to take responsibility for how people respond to their natural state of being? If any more incidents happen, you all need to have a group meeting and state the facts that are going on You will need to forgive her because someday you may be real sister-in laws if you get married. I just smiled and said: I Don know really! Hmm, yeah, I'm not porking up or dumbing down to fit in with a pack of bovine, gossiping, backstabbing women. We all do it, the difference is that some do it with greater intensity and malice than others.
I will try to do what you advised, but these women are crazy and super jealous to the point of violence! They are top atheletes in their school, honor roll students, and do not argue with me about going to church, actually, they go more often than I do. Those women were furious they took me in a room and they start screaming and force me to resign. But some people judge others harshly because of their conceit and condescending attitude toward those who might be shorter, heavier, older and brunetter. At a point I tried toning down my qualities and my charm to make them like me yes they did but was I happy? They should be punish for what they did too me. I am on the attractive side, and have a more stylish sense of fashion. Lets really get to a whole another subject of: Women who discriminate against other women who are single and have no children.
I also would advise reading a good body language book. What is even worse is that there are men who often treat me hostile because of the way I look as well. I declined a lot of the drinks. Me wishing I was fat and dumpy looking just to fit in. Because she caused so much heartache for no reason.
He did this often, and was always very affectionate, protective and loving. I actually feel the tables turned now in adulthood and my sister is constantly never saying congrats or anything positive when I accomplish something. Learn the law, which learn how to read and write. . You are yourself, with your own im perfections and your own flaws, and to someone else, you are the perfect woman.
I may be optimistic and hopeful but, in this world, we need to be if we want to see great change. The other was ony liked by the men. Ask yourself the question would you want to be your own friend? You have to be strong and laugh at the situation. And sometimes guys will even try to hurt you on purpose by backstabbing you and siding up against you with jealous females. Heck, I might even shove her out of a photographer's frame, too.