Oral sex can be highly pleasurable to many women because of its direct focus on the clitoris. This is when many women will find direct clitoral stimulation pleasurable. How to find it: Men have a relatively higher concentration of nerve endings in the soles of their feet than women do, says Mark Michaels, coauthor of Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love. This may not be for everyone, but don't yuck someone's yum. Don't be surprised if he purrs; your handiwork will begin to melt away his tension -- and could turn him into a tiger. A gentle nuzzling of your husband's neck, for instance, may not only feel good but also evoke such feelings of tenderness or surrender that it pushes him into the sensual zone.
If his hair looks a little messy, you can playfully try to fix it, using it as an excuse to touch him. What Real Women Say: The first orgasm I ever had was a 'nipplegasm,' says Nicole, 28. So I kept increasing the pressure until my fingers were locked around him. This move also relieves tension and will allow sexual excitement to flow. There is a higher concentrations of lymph nodes along the neck and under the arms, and the skin is thinner, so the sensory nerves are on higher alert, says Tudor. Pick a clean, quiet, clutter-free area for your massage.
But be sure to keep in touch with your partner and take things slow at first, since this area is extra sensitive. Learn how to make out on a date like a goddess, and make him desperately want more. Rhythmic motions are typically the most pleasurable ones for women—and stimulating the sensitive skin next to her clitoris is an easy way to build arousal and anticipation for an orgasm, she says. Look for the dimple in this bone — this acupressure point is called the Sea of Tranquility, and it's a heavy-duty relaxation trigger. If you want to show a guy affection, hugging him is a great way to know you care. Getty Images Feel for the small hollows in his neck.
They would rather avoid an argument and remain silent but in most cases, silence leads to an eventual separation. Drive him wild: Ease into it slowly. The fact that my man loves it makes me want to do it for him…he begs for it and that is empowering! Getty Images Yes, as you may have expected, the ears are a highly sensitive erogenous zone for your man, hence why he goes crazy if you bite his lobe or blow softly into his ear. If you can convey your pleasure in touching him and show that you enjoy his arousal, that's a tremendous turn-on. Using each hand in a different place gives him an exciting, tantalizing feeling, says Sonntag. Lean your body toward him to make this happen. Hit her clitoris from all sides.
Step 4: Take Him to the Limit in Unexpected Ways Tweak him over the edge. This method worked for Jane, 25. In fact, some studies show that electrical stimulation of these nerves can trigger orgasm. When tapping, stroking or rubbing the clit with your fingers try out a variety of pressures and speeds. If you feel like really spoiling him, coax him into a warm bath and gently massage shampoo into his scalp and neck.
Just take it slow, relax and go forward with the kiss. When in Doubt, Press Harder The amount of hands-on pressure that would make you say Ouch will likely make him say Ooooh, yeah. You can even linger in the opening of her vagina, moving your fingers in a circular motion, without ever taking them out completely. Sex props needn't be motorized gadgets that arrive in your mailbox in a plain brown wrapper. Drive him wild: Many guys are heavily conditioned to focus solely on the genitals. When you know how to touch a woman, she'll not only get turned on by you, but will feel comfortable around you. This is a move that says, Oh, stop it! He runs his hand under cold water first.
When you press firmly, you hit more muscle tissue, but that kills sensation on the surface of the skin, explains Linda De Villers, Ph. Lay his head down in your lap and, once his neck is comfortable, start lightly tracing the angles of his face with the tips of your fingers. The Clavicle Another erogenous zone, baby! Lightly run your fingers and or anxiety-ravaged cuticles down across his lower back, stopping before you hit ass cheek. Run your fingers over their mouth in between kisses. But he's really, really going to want to fornicate you now.
Take his hands and run it along your body a few times. Just make sure that you know the guy well enough and that the occasion is appropriate -- you shouldn't try this move if you're saying hello in the halls or in a class, but you can try it if you're saying hello or goodbye at the end of a party or when you're out with your friends. Just don't make him feel uncomfortable. But some of these perfect women have no clue how to properly touch a man. If he likes that, try adding slight pressure to his scalp in small circular motions. Coconut oil is safe to use on the ears as well, if you want to add an extra slide.