We know that you must be pretty jacked up to hear she wants to continue speaking with you digitally. By staying calm and confident, you'll likely make a good impression. Everything leading up to the meet up should demonstrate value, build her comfort levels and excitement about meeting you. Can I get your number so we can keep talking? You'll have her thinking about you, then somewhere soon but not too soon give her a call Their social surroundings are their playground. I would also like to give an important advice to the boys, focus on the your story and your conversation with a girl, you always have to communicate with funny, mysterious with that girl. I feel that I'm being used as bait so that the other men will back off or maybe she's trying to get back at the other I mentioned.
Your goal is to have her number so that you can start texting her and developing your interaction from there. She's 'attractive' because she's 'pimped' up on most days-heavy makeup, hair always styled and figure hugging clothes one time she wore a really short skirt to work. Both situations would make my day really. You will know this is the reasoning if she seems adamant about making plans with you for the future. Or I tell them, I can text them your number.
I'm a female and this has happened to me a couple of times and I didn't appreciate it. This is not uncommon between co-workers and school peers. I was chatting to her and out of the blue she writes on a piece of paper 'I'm too shy to ask for your number, so here's mine'. My reaction wouldn't change regardless of how long I've known her. If you go for the number in the latter situation, you might get it—and be subsequently friend-zoned in the future.
You should take enough time to introduce yourself to the girl, to ask her name, and to let her quickly see that you're a cool guy she'd like to see again. Though the two-minute drill can be effective, the ten-second drill won't charm any girl no matter how slick you think you are. The more times you try asking for a girl's number, the more likely you'll be to get a positive response. Maybe we can have coffee sometime. Matt Cook knows this all too well. Your Moment With The Girl Finally, you have to figure out a way to isolate yourself from the crowd so she has a chance to discreetly give you her number.
She certainly is an aggressive little minx, isn't she! Turn toward her and tell her your name. Show her that you like to tease her, have her tease you, and keep up your end of a sharp conversation. Well, just have a conversation; then say do you have a phone if shesays yes just ask for here number. This doesn't mean that you should creepily stare into her eyes. You'll be able to tell pretty early on how much your friend was exaggerating or how serious she was.
She wanted my number and she asked for my phone so she could give me her number. Remember, from guys just like you. The ideal way, in my opinion, to get a girls number. It will be weird if she goes in there to save her number and already finds it in there. Instead I say, I don't call women.
Many guys try to brag about their job, social status, physique, athletic ability, or any sort of skill or position worthy of merit, in hopes of capturing her attention. Just swallow your pride andask her. Can I get your number so we can pick this up later? Or - lets say you need to coordinate something between you two, such as rides, hang out, etc. Give her a chance to share herself with you. Is she making excuses to not meet you for a date? For more on guilt tripping and general psycho behaviour, Marie Claire shared a few more. Guy at my uni gave out my number to a girl that said she liked me. .
If you have her number, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Also, I hate giving out a fake number. And yes, chances are less she has full interest but sometimes she did for good reason. Desperation is not a virtue of a confident man. She Has A Favor To Ask You: Sometimes there are things that we prefer to discuss privately with someone. Remove her reasons for saying no.
The last thing you need is to get her number, only to find out at a later date that she was only interested in you as a friend. If so, she may have just given it to you so that you would stop asking. Some people may think it's a good idea for you to go up to the girl and to say, Oh, shoot, I can't find my phone, do you mind if I give it a call from your phone? Assuming what my friend told me she said didn't actually happen, is it weird to text a girl that didn't actually give you her number? It might be a bit fast, depending on her and how she feels. But if you want to and respect you more, never text back too fast. And she'll still sleep with you? The worst thing that can happen is this: you ask for her phone number, and she won't give it to you.
She has a high enough interest level to ask my number. It is tough to resist women I wouldn't blame you if you don't listen. Did she seem annoyed when she gave it to you? Constant texting is a good way to end up in the friend zone. On the one hand, you do feel thrilled that he seems to be reciprocating, but then on the other hand, there's still a slight concern that he went ahead and acquired your number independent of you. All she should have to do is type her number in.