I was devastated by his comment. I have always felt that way my entire life from my family friends and everyone. We started dating seriously, and I started eating very healthy and exercising ex strenuously. He wants me to look like I did when we started dating. I told him how much he hurt me, how angry I was and how he made me feel.
It hurts my feelings because I saw it with my own eyes but he hurried and closed out when I asked what he was doing and said he was reading an article. I think you have a great sense that each person and body is different and no one way works for everyone. Next, I would encourage you to think of small actionable steps of self-care you can take for yourself- which it sounds like you are willing to do, and let him know how he can support you around this in a way that is and is not ok for you. Either way don't wait around to find out. But it allows me to come back to reality. You texted me that you were joking. Do you have a good support system? We need you to fight against all these people who want to take us down and destroy our self esteem.
I was tempted to tell him to leave me alone then and go find his dream girl. My invitation is for you to write out 50 things that you love about yourself and place it under your bed with a crystal to call in the loving energy for you to create love for yourself. For me, the topic of my weight is a very personal, sensitive, and emotional issue. Why is everyone taking this simple remark as something so negative? Ive always hated exercise for various self esteem-related reasons and avoided it. To this reader: You are courageous and beautiful. Myself and hubby also have 2 businesses and 3 kids i find my book keeper is worth her weight in gold.
What would you say to a close friend who was feeling bad about getting fat? Fortunately for me my husband knows better then to ever speak to me like that. Thank you for your courage and words of wisdom. After us being next door neighbors, then best friends then the man I married, and I do everything I can to make him happy, in every which way, which im sure we can all relate to. By saying your long term partner is disrespectful of you by mentioning your weight is an extreme reaction as it may be coming from a place of concern regarding your health. I saw pictures and nothing but. He loved the extra weight and so did everyone else…which made me angry.
Wanting to prove to him that you can be skinny, you may even decide to begin an extreme diet and exercise plan. My intention, or end goal, was for her to be happier with herself because it is a huge issue for her. All that does is make my husband frustrated. Hes making mr feel ashamed of myself i had a long day at work was hungry and wanted to eat my meal in piece. And felt like I weighed a million pounds.
Like I mean nothing because I'm 'Fat I'm not overweight but I'm not at my fit and toned best either and I don't feel great about myself. I don't know if the fault is all the Hs. We take no responsibility for your exposure to third party content on the Sites or the Services. Did you have a happy long marriage? I think that your husband should apologize to you because you didn't mean anything that. Now I get to be stepmommy to two wonderful kids. Letting others dictate what will make us happy, will only make us unhappy.
I admit it, I sound like a bitch. Even unsubscribed from Danielle LaPorte long time ago I truly honor your growth and development into womanhood and your openness about it. This just happened to me last night. I just want to thank you for this read, it may have saved my relationship the first time around when this happened to me. Before making any drastic decisions, it is essential that you take a step back and be objective about this hurtful criticism. First thung i did was take off my coat and lock myself un the bathroom to take a hot shower. I find it degrading that a person can be so bold, without realizing the harshness they give off.
My boyfriend gets mad when I refuse to tell him how much I weigh. Let me know how I can best support you! I was recently diagnosed with about four different issues, one of which has severely limited my ability to exercise, until the doctors can find a solution. He knows that I get sensitive with some comments that he makes. This relationship is also not doing anything for your physical health! If he was offend by what you said then he should have been man enough to say so instead of insulting you the way he did. Your husband is who has the problem by talking to you like that. Since i couldnt pee bc alex was taking his post-work shit and hogging the bathroom i decided to make some tea, about how i should walk the dog tonight bc he just got home and bc i never do it, he always does it.