Thank him for the nice things he does for you. Some times you cry because u can't stand the emotions inside u and u hear sad or strong music and your eye ball juice is heavy and it can't hold the juice which is called tears and makes your face heavy and sometimes your mouth goes down or sometimes other people are different or somtimes something … sad is in front of u happening and u can't stand the sound or if something happens in your life and a part of your family dies or that they are in hospital so that's why you cry but some people make different sounds when they cry and they mouth or eyes do different things and go different ways all depends what it is and how emotional they are. Let him discover what his sadness about - you cannot rescue him. When you discover love, or not. So support him the way you would support a girlfriend if she were crying too. I think for every man it is different on how they want to be comforted or in some cases not be comforted and left alone.
I'd be concerned at seeing him so discouraged. Guys are typically not the masters of two-minute mushy talks, but listening to his voice even for a short time will surely bring a smile to your face. I don't think boys crying is a bad thing. Acceptance is the first step to a lasting relationship. So support him the way you would support a girlfriend if she were crying too. If I found my man crying, I will sit beside him but I won't speak any words.
So your boyfriend appears to be breaking the so called manly mode and expressing sadness - and on the face of it this is a normal human thing to do. The last time I saw my boyfriend was 3 weeks ago. Maybe he's hurting, maybe he's lossed someone, a job or a parent or because he is has a lot of emotional issues. As far as what I would do to handle the situation, that depends on the reason they are crying. It was not just about the subject at hand but a complete dressing down of everything he didn't like about me - that I just couldn't make it in life, etc.
It's really not like him to cheat and I trust that he felt bad. Men aren't reknown for showing their emotions by crying, and a lot of men find that they can't cry real tears and really let the floodgates open. It's possible that your boyfriend just needs some place. Something that must have taken him days, if not weeks, to find. If your relationship works for you two as a union, where you both make decisions for the both of you as a couple, then you have to make the decision, Do I want to spend the rest of my life with this person, knowing that he is the only one for me and that although we may not always see eye to eye, we can live harmoniously together? This can't be a method to get what he wants, or to get out of what he doesn't want. You are the one for him coz of which he is getting these compliments however I doubt that he is ever going to mention it anyways.
How do you deal with the situation if your husband or boyfriend bursts into tears? Even if you hate your dad, haven't seen him in a while, or whatever. Physical attraction is important, but men are even more attracted to women who have positive personality traits. So my boyfriend and i are secretly dating and he is dating someone else but we are still together i miss him a lot. My boyfriend has just left and even though we only live an hour and 40 mins from each other I only get to see him every second week as he sees his daughter the week we don't meet. The Crying-for-No-Reason Crier Consistently weeping without obvious cause may be a sign of a psychological problem such as personality disturbances or depression. He has you so wrapped up he's not the one hypnotized you are.
Nonetheless, he makes me happy. Men are more attracted to women who show that they take care of themselves and try to look their best. Now he is on his second business trip and i miss him so much even though he has only been gone for a week. You will get a sense of this happening if you feel guilty about his tears because of things he hints at or says or if he gets angry with you when you fail to be his surrogate mother. We can be authentic in our emotional responses to the world, ourselves and others, but humans can also be extremely inauthentic, lying about how we truly feel, and even faking emotions to mask our true feelings and manipulate better responses from others than if we were honest in our emotional expressions. It's perfectly fair to note that lacking the maturity to hold it together even when you feel emotional is unattractive. Encourage him or help him become better.
We all have those projects and responsibilities we have been putting off for another day, and with your boyfriend gone, you have the time to finish what you've started. While there is no textbook to tell you precisely what to do when your boyfriend is crying, here are some suggestions that have worked out well for me in the past. Men are also human beings and they also have real emotions. Men are less likely to reveal their emotions in public. Unfortunately this might not be what he wants. There is nothing like waking up to a cute text from your boyfriend! What is more hurtful is that he might take even longer because of the lengthy procedures. If you need time to calm down just let your partner knows.
If he wants to talk to you about it, he will goes into detail. Rather than always being available to your boyfriend, it is important that you maintain your relationships with friends and family. Something that means more than words could ever explain. The reassuring words of your best friend will put you at ease and help you go on about your normal routine. I guess this one is kind of touchy as sooo many men are afraid to show feelings and emotions.