In this post, I share six steps for husbands who need to know what to do and how to respond to their wives. I had to say something and all I got was sorry! You will never know the whole truth, woman will lie worse than a man ever could and whats worse you will believe it because she will cry and cry. Can only think its shock as last time i felt this way is when my dad was killed suddenly. The first was a few weeks into our relationship. She stopped him and told him to leave after a few minutes. I came clean and told him and he forgave me so quick.
So, imagine the roller coaster I am on. You can always ask for more information down the road. If she won't go, then take yourself away for a weekend 2 Set some Rules Now it's time to set some rules And the rules that you lay down are 100% up to you, but just get some rules Rules equal respect. Whether it is a physical or emotional affair, cheating is just as deep. This guy and I even exchanged text messages and he told me that it was stupid drunken behavior.
I am willing to do whatever I can to save the marriage but I still have this feeling that I should go ahead and send the divorce papers through. I am an absolute mess and miss my wife and living with my son. I confronted both of them , him by email and her face to face. Hes a bum who doesnt work and I support them. Im trying to fixed our relationship and it so hard… I hope i can still fix this no matter what Thanks… Good luck … I would like a copy of the book.
I bent over backwards to help her. Become emotionless and bury my head in lots of work and nights out. You may be thinking about all the times you shared together. Of course at beginning she denied it. We still stayed together through some really rough times, i never really trusted her. The only thing that I can think of that I have over this guy is that he cant ejaculate.
Then decide if forgiveness is in the cards. The other thing is my wife doesnt look like herself or hasnt been acting like herself. But knowing it went on much longer, much longer only puts another wall in front of our ever being able to stay together. Certain people bring out suppressed traits in others. Any advice, as this is just the second confirmed catch? Me texting another woman caused all kinds of issues for her, she no longer trusted me and still dont, although she has issues with me not trusting her when she has physically cheated numerous times.
Sad… I feel sorry for each man here. If a partner admits to infidelity, insist on individual and couples therapy as a perquisite to healthfully continuing the marriage. One time in therapy the therapist asked why do I stay. I promised myself to never do again and not tell hubby , but again, recently found myself drinking with this one ex coworker and he came on to me, we kissed. I wonder every day if I stay with her will she just keep doing the same thing in the future.
I stole her phone away one of the motives I did not walk out on her right then. She told me by dropping a letter in my lap and walking away. The bad thing is that i really have no one here i can confide in. A solution for that worry is to. After a settled down a bit I wanted to know everything.
We are still together and this issue is going haywire inside of me. My wife got pregnant by a co woker she fell in love with when we were having issues. My wife cheated after 2 years of marriage with my best friend at the time. Only happened once never will again but I keep thinking I should let him go out and have sex with someone once. Maximum of the calls were on her cell phone. I told my wife if she does not get off the chat rooms and cut him off we are through by the way she is telling him she is 42 but will be 59 in january. The next day she started screwing Josh.